The hymen actually serves no purpose whatsoever. Up North, Wisconsin Registered: Never forget a condom. He has had sex before, but I have never even masterbated. Most of the pain just comes from being nervous about it, and not being aroused enough.
Overcoming Painful Virginity Loss and Pain in Early Intercourse
Women how painful was your first time? But, which tale is true? Using birth control is the best way to prevent pregnancy if you have penis-in-vagina sex. Then advance to a larger plug. It turns out that sex is complicated no matter how old you are. Having sex for the first time is so personal that there's no way of knowing if you'll have a magical experience, an awkward experience, or both.
Can I make losing my virginity less painful?
I also bled a little too, which was not embarassing because my boyfriend understood. As the pelvic floor muscles become used to sexual activity, they will eventually be able to comfortably accommodate a penis or object. This felt earth shattering. Please be sensitive to this fact when creating an account and contributing to the board. I have had sex with two virgins, and they said it was uncomfortable for a little while but that it was not painful considering I was very gentle.
Advanced Warrior Members posts Location Space. That shit would hurt sooo much. Oftentimes it's fun and pleasurable, and yes, sometimes it's awkward. Knowing you're ready is a MUCH more important thing. It hurt like hell for the first couple of seconds because of that. But one of the most important parts of being prepared for sex is making sure you use birth control and condoms to help prevent pregnancy and STDs.